Que pasa Rico and Mambo Good to see you guys doing your thang on the net. Here’s my dilemma, I’m a single guy, and I enjoy meeting women. I met this woman at a bar last weekend, and after a few drinks, we went back to her apartment. We eventually started getting-it-on and it was great at first until she STOPPED me right in the middle of things.
She told me she couldn’t keep going because she “loves her boyfriend too much.” Shouldn’t she have stopped me BEFORE we started having sex? Is it possible she used this as an excuse because she thinks I’m bad in bed? Has this ever happened to anyone else? What’s your 2 cents on this?
I think what this girl did was to get back at her boyfriend. There’s got to be more to the story; on her part! The other thing too, is that she may have been a little drunk and found it easier to sleep with you that night. The part that I think is crazy is that you went to HER apartment! As a guy, I know we don’t ask these questions as were on our way to the girls “Place”, but let this be your public service announcement: Find out how long they been single…that way you know what your up against when they say, “Let’s go to my place”.
As far as your insecurity, I would think nothing of it. It sounds like you’ve been “Putting it down for the 805″ for some time now. If this is the first time you’ve ever been told to stop, just learn from it. What I mean by that is, try to remember what you were doing and how you were doing it and try to fix your mistakes that you remember. Kinda like athletes; they get to go back and watch film to see what their mistakes were in the game and try to correct them. Bro, I’m still trying to perfect “The Craft” so keep on keepin’ on! RMEMBER: USE A CONDOM!
Gracias for checking in and hope I was able to help you out on your “Dilemma”! Good luck “Blue Man”!
Alright Blue Man,
If she was thinking about her boyfriend while YOU were supposed to be putting it down, you have a problem. There are certain things women shouldn’t do while you’re taking care of business. Like answering the phone, bringing up current or former boyfriends, asking you for the time. If she mentions any of the above you need to rent some porndeezys and get some pointers. Another thing, you shouldn’t be hooking up with women with boyfriends or husbands cuz you might get a beat down. That’s my final say on this dilemma.