Hello boys, I was telling my co worker about a little problem I have a she told me to send it to you guys. So here it is. I’ve been dating this guy for a month now, and I finally ended up back at his place this weekend. Unfortunately, before we had sex, I used the bathroom and there was a basket of reading material in there. All the stuff on top was really boring, so I dug down and found some “Playboys” and some “Hustlers”. It totally turned me off, so I made up some excuse and we didn’t take things any further that night. Now I’m wondering whether I want to break things off with him altogether. I know a LOT of guys enjoy pornography but is it possible to find a guy who DOESN’T? And is it unrealistic of me to hold out for such a guy? Your thoughts on my little problem will really help me make the right choice boys. Please be honest.
Not A Porn Star
“Not A Porn Star”,
First of all, If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a hundred times: “Careful what’chu look for, cuz you may find it”! Secondly, I really think you ARE asking for too much, and way unrealistic! Some guys read “Playboy” and other mags for the “Articles”. So you really can’t think that he’s a freak or anything. It’s not like he pulled out the mag right then and there and started looking at it while you were there…C’mon! For all you know, you may have just lost the best man in the world over a stupid magazine or two!
Honestly do this guy a favor and break up with him! I think you’re doing TOO MUCH! If you’re really concerned about all this Sex stuff, SAVE YOURSELF FOR MARRIAGE. KEEP IT REAL!