Hi Guys, I have a little problem. I dated this guy for a few weeks, I ended up sleeping with him, and then he never called me back. But we hang out in the same circle of friends, and I’ve always thought that one of his friends is really attractive. The guy is definitely into me too, and he asked me for my number the other night. I’m all about dating this new guy . . . but I’m also a little concerned. Will it make me look slutty if I hook up with him? Is it even worth pursuing? What’s your 2 cents on my little problem?
Wow! Ummmmm…YEAH! It will definitely make you look slutty, especially in the same circle of friends! I think that if you chose to persue this guy who’s into you, I suggest you “Don’t give up the goods” that fast. Make him put a little bit of work into it. If you’re all about dating, then what the hell…go for it, who cares what others think! However, I think that if you’re trying to find true love (AND NOT JUST SEX), you will get this guys number and pursue him under YOUR TERMS, not his!
Good luck girl!
I think right now you are borderline LEGEND! You need to take a break from dating within your circle of friends. Give it a couple of months and see if you’re still into this guy. If you make your move now, you will be considered a legend. Take your time and everything will be all good.