I was seeing this guy for about 5 months and everything was pretty kool. I was into him and I thought he was into me too. I honestly thought that we were gonna be girlfriend/boyfriend real soon. Well about 2 weeks ago, he dropped a bomb on me and told me that he needed to cut things off with me because he was gonna be with some other girl and didn’t wanna be cheating on her. Of course I was hurt but what could I say right? Well, not even a month has gone by and I get a call from him saying that he made a big mistake and should’ve chose me over the other girl. I really like him but I don’t wanna feel like I’m sloppy seconds because things didn’t work out with his “Other” choice. Should I give him another chance?
“Don’t Wanna Be Number Two”
Rico and Mambo,
I have a co-worker that’s married. When she started working with us, she was making minimum wage. Now that she’s sleeping with the boss, she’s making more than the rest of us in the company. Somebody told me personally that her husband knows about her sleeping with the boss, but he’s kool with it cuz she’s making money. The other crazy thing is, she’s also sleeping with other guys here at work and it’s created a lot of jealousy within the company. The boss doesn’t know about her sleeping around because he would probably fire them on the spot! Should I step up and let her know that we all know what she’s doing and that she needs to stop? What kind of husband would allow his wife to sleep with the boss and be kool with it?
“Hitting It In At Work”
I need to hear from your listeners on my “Dilemma”. I hooked up with my sisters best friend. Everything’s good, we’re both pretty much into the same things: we like old school music, going to clubs and car shows. The problem is, she’s Armenian and I’m Latino. She told me that she wants us to be together, but she knows that her parents won’t accept me cuz I’m Latino. We’ve already tried to give each other space and stay away from each other, but we keep calling, texting and emailing each other. She’s also stayed at my pad a couple of times. How could I, or should I stop seeing her because her parents don’t agree in mixing cultures? We’re both 23 and yes, she still lives with her parents. I don’t know what to think? Why can’t we just all live together and be happy?
Rico and Mambo,
I’m a 30 year old female and in my life, I’ve had 4 one-night stands. Two of them were just for sex, but the other two guys were guys that I actually liked. To be honest, I was hoping one of the two guys I liked would turn into something more, but it didn’t. I know of a couple that slept together on the first night and are still together 5 years later! Should women always wait to have sex with a guy? If women sleep with a guy on the first night, does a guy always assume she’s easy? Can a one-night stand eventually turn into a long lasting, healthy relationship?
“Call Me Gina”
Rico and Mambo,
So the other day my 12 year old daughter came home from school and I noticed that she was wearing foundation, blush, eye shadow and mascara. She said she got it from the drug store on her way home and all the girls at her school wear it. I’m not sure that I’m okay with her wearing makeup already. Because she’s my only child, I don’t know the answer to my next question; At what age should little girls start to wear makeup? Should I tell my daughter that she has to wait a couple more years before she can wear make up? I mean, I was 16 when I was finally able to wear blush!
I’ve been married for 6 years. Everything’s been pretty good except for; we’ve been fighting a lot lately. She’s been accusing me of cheating. Yes, I cheated one time. I told her about it, we talked about it, she forgave me and we’ve moved on; or so I thought. Well, me and the girl that I cheated with had stopped talking. However, a couple of days ago, the “Mistress” and I started talking again. I don’t want to cheat on my wife again, but I have feelings for the “Mistress”. The “Mistress” knows my situation, but doesn’t care. So now I feel like I’m between a rock and a hard place. This may sound stupid, but I really don’t know what to do. I’m sick of my wife accusing me of doing what I’m not!
“Three Hearts, Two Women, One Guy”
Rico and Mambo!
A couple of days ago, my boyfriend and I got into the biggest argument we’ve ever had. He says I’ve been stressing him out with everything I do, say and want…like ATTENTION! In the end, he told me that he wants a break from me. I don’t believe in breaks because once you leave, you can’t come back! I asked him what I need to do fix all this and he said he wants a more “Relaxed relationship”…as in a friends with benefits relationship. All he wants from me is sex but I’m not down with that! I’m scared to lose him because I’ve never liked someone so much before. I wish he’d go back to being the person I met a year ago! He says we don’t need to talk a lot and any phone call needs to be kept short. I don’t want him to leave me. Should I wait for him?
“Not A Booty Call”
Rico and Mambo!
I recently left my boyfriend because he’s a big ol’ horn-dog! I always hear how he tries to get with other women, but I ignored it. I’m not too sure if he does it because we just had a baby 2 months ago and my body’s not the same or what. I miss him and want him back, but he said he won’t change for anybody! It really hurts to know that he wants other women and not me. I want to get back with him because of the baby! I wish I could just get over him and get with someone else, but I don’t know what man would want me or even bother looking at me especially after having my baby. What do I do?
“Lonely Mommy” 🙁